Message Notes

Series: It's Complicated

Message Title:I'm Offended

Speaker: Pastor Scott

Date: 10/10/21

Series Verse: Philippians 2:5

Bottom Line: Choose to let others refine you, not define you.


Offense is the fuel of fractured relationships.

Jesus offers a better way!

What does offense look like?

How to get and stay offended:

  1. Get - decide that someone else has the power to define your value

  2. Stay - talk about your offense with others - often!

How to build resistance to offense:

  1. Decide that my value is fixed

  2. Decide that others will not be the source of truth in my life

  1. Ask God to help you shed unfair expectations of others

  2. Give Jesus the final word